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Gay Sex
i just want to attempt to clarify in my last post when i spoke about how being, "gay" seems to be only about sex. i know sex is also apart of being "straight" as well, but i feel like in terms of the focus it's often times not given as much focus as i feel that the gay community gives to sex. now this is an opinion and i know that people can start naming t.v. shows, music videos, magazine covers celebrities, etc. but in general when i speak with my friends (ordinary people leading ordinary lives) they also enjoy sex equally as much but they don't have to announce it and flaunt it.

for instance at my part time job i had an assistant manager that was gay. some nights during closing when there were no customers in the store he would talk about his past "conquest" and other guys he would hook up with in a second "if" he was not in a relationship. i have witnessed similar conversations before from different people. now when i close with any other manager, male or female, they rarely mention hooking up or their sexual life.

it's not that they don't do it, or that they don't have a sex life. i just don't think it's as much a focus of their social conversations and meetings. yet when i have been on dates or in groups of gay guys sex always comes up as a topic of discussion.

on outpersonals i can completely understand that. wile eating Chinese food at a Chinese restaurant to break from studying from finals. im not so sure.

when i get mail from gay companies they tend to center around sex, unless it's perhaps something talking about human rights or aids. book clubs, cd clubs, websites, t.v. shows, gay artist, parades, gay day at Disney, gay this gay that. even my co-workers have remarked that to them it seems as if "gay" guys tend to be extremely promiscuous and it seems to be a norm not an occasional occurrence.

all i am saying is sex is great but so is the rest of life!

why can't i seem to find someone that is interested in sex and life outside of the sheets?

i have other interest besides sex, like yoga, health, politics, environmental concerns, world poverty, religion, philosophy, meditation, ayurveda, starting a family, designing a home, ending all suffering and sadness in the world, natural beauty, addressing self esteem issues in our society, etc. there are many many many more. yet so far i have only found people who say they have an interest in these things but all they really want is sex. "let's be friends" now either means, "let's fuck without strings" or "I'm not really interested in you".

"I love you" seems to mean, " I love fucking you on a regular basis, and having you as my boyfriend makes me look good to others" or "I actually love you" (rare even in the straight world).

i guess now i am a hypocrite because i am blogging on a hookup site for gay men!

i guess i just have to find away to mentally wrap my mind around what it means to be "gay" otherwise I might just resign to being a male who is interested in developing a relationship in other men. rather than being "gay" which is now all about being cool, hot, and having great sex until you find the ONE.

Don't take any of this to seriously, because i am liable to wake up tomorrow horny and anxious to jump someone and i will forget about these thoughts until my emotions start getting entangled in my physical entanglements.

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